I love playing board games with my family and friends, they're a great way to socialize.
"Board games? Oh yeah, I've played the one that lets you try to buy up all the properties and force everyone else into bankruptcy."
When you ask the average Joe or Judy if they've ever played a board game before, the typical responses include Monopoly, The Game of Life, or even Risk. Occasionally someone will throw in some party game they played at a family gathering.
You'll also receive an amalgam of exciting or painful memories of said experiences. It could be their win/loss record, playing with competitive people, cards were thrown because of anger management issues, the list goes on. But the one constant is that almost everyone has had some experience playing a tabletop game.
I personally grew up playing in this cardboard jungle. As a youngster playing Monopoly, I can remember always trying to land on Boardwalk and Park Place because I knew I was going to be rolling in the dough if another player landed there. As time went on (and I grew up and had more responsibilities), I lost interest and moved onto things far more intriguing, like dating.
But now in recent years, with the massive influx of newer board games such as the timeless Settlers of Catan or the modern classic Ticket to Ride, I've found myself hearing the call of the wild back to the jungle. For the past five years since jumping back into the hobby, I've discovered so many wonderful benefits just from sitting around with a group of friends and family vying for the win. The purpose of this article is to show how playing board games can actually better your life in various ways.
1. A Better Social Life
With the wide swath of social media tools such as Facebook and Twitter connecting billions of people around the globe, a common thought is that our social lives should be more robust than ever. Sadly, many scientific studies on the epidemic of loneliness and depression in our society say that this couldn't be further from the truth. If we're honest, more people feel more disconnected from each other than ever before.
Face it, when's the last time you've walked through the mall or sat down in a restaurant and didn't notice a group of people spending time together with their faces lit up by phone screens?
Benefits of gaming:
Board games force face-to-face interaction with other human beings. Your social life no longer consists of tweets, pics, and likes. It is now filled with conversation and eye contact. No longer are you some lifeless avatar behind a screen, you're now free to be the real imperfect you in front of a very real group of imperfect people having a great time with one another. This will not only teach you some very much needed social skills, but also you can make some great friends in the process.
I personally have a group of folks that I get together with a few times a month for a game night. I have made a few close friends through this that I may not have met otherwise.
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2. You'll Find an Enjoyable New Hobby
For many years, board gaming has been what's considered a niche hobby. It was something only "those nerds" played, so it wasn't worth some people's time.
My how the times are changing. A cardboard atomic bomb has dropped on the planet in recent years, and now gaming conventions are rivaling some of the biggest movie and comic book conventions.
From big trade shows like GenCon here in America, to the gigantic Essen convention in Germany, gaming has had an absolute explosion in popularity unlike the hobby has ever seen.
Youtube shows such as Tabletop, and The Dice Tower serve to highlight just how much of a mainstream phenomenon board gaming has become in our culture today.
Game nights are beginning to be a cultural norm all across the world as family and friends gather around the table to engage in (hopefully) nonviolent cardboard battles.
3. Games Teach Common Sense
Huh? Common sense?
Yes, you read that correctly. If you look at the myriad of titles available, many of these deal with themes such as economics, business, trade, fairness, etc. With these, there are many mechanics built in that deal with consequences. It reminds me of something I call the unbendable law from the Bible, and it's at work in so many games:
Galatians 6:7 “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.”
There are consequences for your actions, plain and simple. The reason this law is unbendable is that you can't avoid it no matter how hard you try. A great wisdom principle for all of us to remember.
If you plant good seed, you'll normally get a good crop. If you plant bad seeds, there's a great chance you'll harvest a bad crop. Simply put, if you make good and wise decisions, you'll normally receive great rewards. If you make dumb, foolish decisions, you'll normally receive a fool's reward.
Life and games operate in the same way. You can't turn the consequences spigot off, frankly speaking, there is no switch. If you play wisely, there's a great chance you'll do well in the game, if you do the opposite......well you get the idea.
Games teach you to take responsibility for what you do. Consequences are a necessary thing. You can choose to learn from them, and ultimately it will help you make better decisions in life as a whole.
4. You Will Learn How to Plan for the Future
One thing that is prevalent in the more recent crop of titles is the resource management aspect. Titles like Le Havre can teach you what it takes to run a business, while rewarding long term strategy that's focused on investing for the future. It's also very interesting that the game penalizes you with debt if you don't manage well.
I would fall asleep in economics class, but if they showed it to me within this kind of format, I would be very intrigued and might actually pass the course.
While Le Havre is a bit on the heavy side of things, games like Stone Age and Settlers of Catan offer this concept without the excessive brain hurt that could turn off newer gamers to the hobby.
5. They Teach You More About Yourself
"Wow, I didn't realize the strength I had until I flipped the table after losing."
Competition has a wonderful way of confronting a person's pride.
The reactions that come out of us as human beings in tense situations can often be humorous and sometimes downright sad. I've personally witnessed a 6'4 guy who is normally very jovial threaten to punch the lights out on a guy who was about 5'8 because he didn't like a move the guy made. While it was partially in jest, you could tell there was a strong competitive spirit in the room.
We men can tend to start barking at each other like a group of drunken pirates who are a little too high on testosterone. Admittedly, it lends itself somewhat to how we are wired, but there is something to be said for having good self-control.
Cooperative board games such as Pandemic are a wonderful alternative to the more competitive options out there. In this case, you are a group of scientists traveling around the globe trying to eradicate 4 diseases before they turn into a worldwide pandemic. You have to work together and pool your strengths to win the game. While it's an intense scenario, you realize that you're not against each other but are there to support the team. Because of this, you learn fairly quickly who the leaders and followers are.
There are some of us that are much better at leading and giving direction to the rest of the team, while some are better at taking orders and doing a checklist of tasks. As a person, your strengths and weaknesses are exposed more so to you than anyone else. This opens up opportunities to break out of your shell and learn to overcome these weaknesses and to appreciate the strengths you have.
An Honorable Mention
I know I know, it's really the sixth benefit, but I was so fixated on all the others that I almost forgot this one.
Games are a great way to wind down from a hard day. You want to get the stress off and pop out a fun party game with some friends. You'll be howling with laughter, and it gets you away from reality for a short time.
I hope this has encouraged you to give games another look. There are many benefits to be had as well as social skills to be learned. I know I've grown as a person just from fellowship with the people around the table. I hope you will benefit as well. Get out there and start gaming!
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© 2014 Kas
Luis G Asuncion from City of San Jose Del Monte, Bulacan, Philippines on November 16, 2019:
I love playing board games too. Thanks for sharing.
Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on May 21, 2018:
Numbers 3 and 5 are my favorite reasons, but they're all good. Thank you.
Kas (author) from Bartlett, Tennessee on September 06, 2016:
Same here, I have many of them myself and have started my own collection. I'm amazed at how swiftly I jumped in when I did but I've started up some pretty successful board game nights now. We typically have about between 10-15 people show up regularly.
KC on April 11, 2016:
I love love lost playing board games every chance I get I'm playing a game. I lost track of how many I've got. Some of my closest friends I've met because of board game night. I have a few groups that i join and we all have a blaat I will never turn down a chance to try a new game out cause they r all fun. I haven't played one that I hate yet I might have to play it a few times BWF i finally get the hang of it
Kas (author) from Bartlett, Tennessee on January 21, 2016:
Thanks Rockhero, I thought it was really cool to see that. It shows how mainstream board gaming has become and is becoming more so. I personally have gotten heavily into it in the past 4-5 years.
rockhero on January 21, 2016:
Taking a look at your Poll results, I'd say (so far) it's mainly being read by people already in the hobby of modern board gaming.
Kas (author) from Bartlett, Tennessee on April 27, 2015:
Thank you so much Flourish. I'm trying hard to balance life as a Dad, School, Work, etc. I'm getting on here as I can. I have made wonderful friends through this process of having a game night at least a few times a month or even once a week. It's amazing how simple it is really.
FlourishAnyway from USA on January 14, 2015:
Kas - Welcome back! I agree with you that board games confer lots of benefits, make us "real" and connect us. My favorites are Monopoly and Clue. I also like Uno as a card game for the whole family.
Kas (author) from Bartlett, Tennessee on January 03, 2015:
You're so right Merrci, you really hit the nail on the head. The goal of games is socializing first, exercising brains second lol. At least, that's my thoughts on it. Thank you so much for stopping in.
Kas (author) from Bartlett, Tennessee on January 03, 2015:
Thank you Trisha Roberts, I'm absolutely blown away at the big comeback games have made. I'm also amazed at my interest level in them exploding in recent years. Ticket to ride is one of the best games in my collection these days. I hope you continue to enjoy it and also stick around, i will be having more hubs on gaming soon, possibly some things related to my top ten games for families, strategy, party, etc. thanks for dropping in.
Kas (author) from Bartlett, Tennessee on January 03, 2015:
Sure thing Bravewarrior, I remember playing scrabble as well and almost hating it at times because my grandmother was an English major apparently. I now love playing words with friends once in a while, but I'm grateful for the strategy games and such that really engage my mind. Thanks for the comment and good seeing you again.
Trisha Roberts from Rensselaer, New York on January 02, 2015:
We actually played Ticket to Ride about a two months ago, It was very fun! Thanks so much for this Article, me and my friends love getting together at least once a month to enjoy our "Board game night" .
Merry Citarella from Oregon's Southern Coast on January 02, 2015:
I've always enjoyed board games too! I'm sharing this on my AlzheimersHQ.com site too. Not only are games are great for exercising the brain, the socialization is important too! Enjoyed. Thanks.
Shauna L Bowling from Central Florida on January 01, 2015:
Kaz, I think the last board game I played was Scrabble and that was about four years ago. We used to play board games all the time as kids.
I'm glad to see they're coming back. You're so right about the Internet isolating us and making us faceless.